"There isn't any formula or method.
You learn to love by loving."
Aldous Huxley

One sure way of delaying your learning process in love is by worrying. You can't learn to love by continuously agonizing about it. It's easy to develop a hard outer shell when you are anxious about or fretting over making a long-term relationship become successful. It's easier to become a cynic than it is to work beyond disappointment and rise above any setbacks or hurts. Most people have a tendency to blame themselves and Worry! Worry! Worry! If this is you maybe the time has come to say, "Enough!" Quit browbeating yourself and worrying over past mistakes and try to learn not to be controlled by guilt. Forgive yourself and then ask forgiveness and understanding of others. The following thoughts should always be remembered.

Random Reflections

•  Worry never climbed a hill - Worry never paid a bill
•  Worry never dried a tear - Worry never calmed a fear
  
• Worry never darned a heel - Worry never cooked a meal
  
• Worry never led a horse to water and
  Worry never done a thing you'd think it oughta.