"IF YOU ARE AFRAID OF BEING LONELY, TRY NOT TO ALWAYS BE RIGHT."
JULES RENARD
To gain instant loneliness try ignoring your problems by withdrawing and giving your partner the silent treatment. Attacking them rather than the problem always works and copping an attitude of, “he or she won’t change” or "it will blow over” are good. Ignoring its importance by thinking, “it doesn’t matter” or “I’m going to win no matter the cost.” Keeping score by bringing up the past will certainly accelerate the Loneliness process. It is always easier to walk away rather than putting forth the effort to resolve a conflict. On the other hand it always more rewarding to resolve a conflict rather than dissolving a relationship by insisting you are right? When you want be number “1” you may reach a few personal goals but you will sacrifice many relationships. When you resolve problems the reward is that you become a better person now and become qualified to deal with future conflicts in your life.
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